I am lucky to have had the privilege of knowing Truc and being his neighbor for the last seven years. I first heard about Truc on a phone call when I was considering buying a unit in the association. Somehow I had got the contact info for the previous president, Terry Hand, who had long since moved away, but I wanted to get the low down on the neighborhood. She proceeded to tell me about an owner named T-r-u-c and specifically about the time he held what sounded to me like an absolutely wonderful party on the front lawn, in which he roasted a whole pig on a spit right next to the road. Some of you were there. This happened twice since he bought the condo in 2010, and I hear the meat was cooked medium-rare if not exceptionally rare. Anyway, I was sold, and after five years of casually looking and renting in Maine I bought my first home.
As a typical condo neighbor, I tried to mostly ignore Truc in the first year or so. But as we all know, Truc cannot be ignored. Slowly, his smile and affability drew me in. We became closer in 2018 when we both found ourselves in similar life circumstances. The two of us were very close in age and had been living with a domestic partner for a few years, who were each expecting something more. My girlfriend wanted to start a family and wasnt willing to wait for me to make up my mind. In Trucs case, he was the bigger person and ended it because she wasnt the one and he didnt want to waste a young womans time. So, around the start of the pandemic we found ourselves single and starting to yearn for connection. Given Trucs vibrance I knew he would find someone, though initially he had his doubts (or did he just say that to make me feel better?). The rest is history. Bethany and I had our first date technically earlier, but Truc and Lesleys relationship developed quicker. Even though there was a global pandemic with no end in sight, I could finally see Truc truly in his element and happy. Everyone who knew Truc will remember him for his remarkable enthusiasm and zest for life.
Im thankful for the sense of community and connection he brought to our neighborhood. His social presence will truly be missed. They say in Buddhist philosophy that we are to bow in thanks to the deceased for having reminded us of the impermanence of life. In Trucs case, I am also grateful for his reminder to live life with great spirit and vitality. As one who is naturally introverted and analytical, I am certainly thankful for how he taught me to just go for it. Our thoughts and sentiments are with everyone affected by his passing.