Samuel Custer Hackenberger

Samuel Custer Hackenberger August 3, 1914 August 26, 2012 Sam was born in the ""shadow of the White House"" in Washington D.C. the youngest of three children born to Bertram Hackenberger and Bessie Mecklem, his was a surprising yet welcome arrival after a 14 year gap. Bessie was the first female saxophonist in the U.S. Sam accompanied his mother to many performances in Philadelphia, toting her musical instruments in his red wagon- possibly the first known ""roadie""! Sam also became an accomplished saxophonist in his own right, joining the marching band at Valley Forge Military Academy, PA. His was the first incoming class of cadets. The years at VFMA were among his fondest memories. He attended his 80th homecoming in 2010, with two daughters and grandson Jeffrey, who surprised him by traveling from Maine to the event . The depression interrupted Sam's ability to graduate as he was forced to return home to NJ to fulfill family obligations. In 2010, VFMA awarded him an honorary degree, an unexpected and very proud achievement. Sam's military career began in the US Army, spanning 1933-1936. Prior to discharge, he enlisted in the US Navy, a move that allowed him ""a bunk on a ship instead of a bed in the mud"". He served proudly in his capacity as a licensed electrician, achieving many certifications. Proudest was his involvement as a Seabee whose ""CAN DO"" attitude became his mantra. Later he served in the US Naval Reserve, 1951-1955. Sam was wounded during hand-to-hand combat. He was deemed eligible for a Purple Heart but like many of his time, he declined the honor. Although later he pursued acceptance of the award, it is disappointing that his injuries have yet to be WWII service connected as records were destroyed by fire. Sam married Martha Johnson in NJ and had two children. Martha passed away in 1952. In 1953, he married Nancy Barton in San Diego CA and together had three children. He retired to Chebeague Island, Maine in 1975, embracing his love of the Island and Casco Bay. In his later years, Sam and Nancy became residents of Falmouth. Following a heart attack in 1983 he became a dedicated participant of the USM Heartline program, attending weekly classes. He attributed this exercise regime to his strong and healthy existence, forming devoted friendships through his involvement. He remained active in the program until age 96. In December 2011, Sam traveled with his daughter Jean to the 70th reunion of Pearl Harbor, which was a highlight of his life. He celebrated his 98th birthday earlier this month. He reflected often, stating no regrets in his life; that he would not change a single thing. Sam had a generous nature, a playful and adventurous spirit. As Vice Commander of the Falmouth American Legion Post #164, he enjoyed friendships with the members, which involved a morning coffee routine. Sam was often seen on his motorized chair, an orange safety flag waving his identity ""Sam I Am"". He was predeceased by his parents, brother Bertram Jr, sister Ruth Stevenson, and his loving wives. He is survived by son James (Rosemary), San Marcos, CA, Jean Cummings (Robert), Sequim, WA, son Michael of WA, daughter Nancy Vachon (Jim) Portland, daughter Ruthie Noble (Chuck McCatherin) Falmouth, grandchildren Chief Master Sgt. Dennis Hackenberger, Pam McConnell (Patrick), Melanie Curnow (David) Sandra Bradford (Dan), Donna Meyer (Todd Nichols), Jeffrey (Beth), Jeremy and Ruthie Putnam, and 17 great grandchildren. The family sends special thanks to those who, in Sam's final days, tended to his comfort. The Gosnell House offered a wonderful experience for Sam and the family, all who treated Sam at Maine Medical Center, Maine Veteran's Home of Scarborough, physician and friend Dr. James Kirsh and staff, Dr Howard Glass and staff and Beach Glass Transitions. Sam made it his policy to pay it forward. The Salvation Army treated him well during his war years and he would urge consideration of this resource when donating useful items. Monetary donations may be made in Sam's memory to the Gosnell Memorial Hospice House, 11 Hunnewell Drive, Scarborough, ME 04074. It was there in the beautiful sunny gardens, surrounded by family, that Sam took his last breath. As always, Sam did it his way! Caring relatives and friends are invited to gather at the home of Chuck and Ruthie, 25 Kelley Road, Falmouth, ME on Sept. 15th from 3:00 to 6:00 pm to share thoughts and memories. Light fare will be provided.

Samuel Custer Hackenberger

August 3, 1914 - August 26, 2012

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