Elaine Wing Gray, 63, passed away November 7, 2017 with her loving family by her side.  She was born September 7, 1954 in Portland to Norman K. and Lorraine (Moulton) Wing. Elaine attended Cathedral and graduated from Portland High School.  She worked various jobs, including customer service at Levinsky's and patient care at Maine Medical Center. Elaine was quiet unless she wanted to be heard.  She loved her family, especially her four grandchildren.  She enjoyed playing Bingo, going to the casino, shopping online, dancing (in her earlier years), but most of all she loved spending time with her children and grandchildren. Elaine was preceded in death by:  her father, Norman K. Wing; nephew, James W. McDonald Jr.; and brother-in-laws, Donald Moody and David Trynor.  She is survived by:  her mother, Lorraine Wing; sisters, Dianne Trynor, Lorraine McDonald and her husband, James, Linda Moody, Donna Albert and her husband Duane, Susan Gardiner and her husband, Bob, Teresa Scanlin and her husband, James, and Carolyn Sivik and her husband, Mark; brothers, Jeffrey Wing and Norman Wing and his wife, Connie; daughter, Tricia Cook and her husband, Rob; son, Jonathan Gray; daughter, Amy Jo Laudermilk and her husband, Nick; grandchildren, Brandon, Julianne, Kayden, and Ryleigh Jo; and many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. Visitation will be held from 9:00 - 11:00 AM on Saturday, November 11, 2017 at A.T. Hutchins Funeral Home, 660 Brighton Ave., Portland.  A celebration of Elaine's life will follow at the Westbrook Eagles, 89 Saco St., Westbrook. Flowers can be sent to the funeral home.